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WH1
06-28-2009, 06:00 AM
I need some information on suitable attire for attending an evening performance of "Romeo and Juliet" at the Met in NYC next week. We have very good seats in the Center Parterre and I want to make sure I am properly dressed. It is not an opening night performance so I believe the dinner jacket would be overdressing (too bad as I have a new BB peak lapel I would love to wear). I am leaning towards a 3 pc Navy linen suit, cream colored shirt, brown or black captoes (well polished) and a tie (possibly a bow).

Any suggestions or recommendations are greatly appreciated, I want it to be a memorable evening especially for my lovely wife who has been looking forward to this for several months now.

Feraud
06-28-2009, 07:56 AM
Your outfit sounds fine. You will probably be better dressed than most of those in attendance.
Enjoy the show. :)

dhermann1
06-28-2009, 08:05 AM
What Feraud said is exactly right. If you want to eat at a fabulous local eatery (I know, I've been touting this place like crazy with no results so far, but what the hey) try Cafe Des Artistes, on W 67th St. They have a $35 prix fixe dinner. Fabulous place. You'll never forget it.
Enjoy!

Nick D
06-28-2009, 08:36 AM
Your outfit sounds fine. You will probably be better dressed than most of those in attendance.
Enjoy the show. :)

Indeed. I went to Hamlet at the Novello in London, wearing a 3-piece, bow, and homburg. There were a few other people dressed for the occassion, but it was mostly jeans and t-shirts. The people sitting right in front of me were wearing track suits :(

John in Covina
06-28-2009, 10:17 AM
I think that the tux would be good, especially if you were continuing the evening after the Met.

Aureliano
06-28-2009, 10:52 AM
I go to the opera a few times a year. I find that almost always only a handfull of people dress up. Jeans and shirts are all over the place and even baseball caps!. I always wear a 3 pc suit, tie and a fedora. My wife, a nice black dress. Your outfit sounds perfect. You'll have a great time. The opera your seeing is fantastic.

Geesie
06-28-2009, 11:42 AM
I think that the tux would be good, especially if you were continuing the evening after the Met.

Agree completely. So what if it's not opening night? It's opera at the Met.

dhermann1
06-28-2009, 11:48 AM
If you ever get a chance, take in an opera in Munich. It's a magnificent opera house, with really big public spaces and lobbies. Everyone dresses to the nines. I mean really elegant. And they serve the most mind bogglingly delicious goodies in the cafe at intermission! That really holds true for all of Germany, I guess. I would expect that's the case for all of Europe.

Aureliano
06-28-2009, 12:06 PM
I've seen guys in jeans and a button down at opening night.

Orsini
06-28-2009, 12:34 PM
Black shoes after 6:00 PM.

WH1
06-28-2009, 07:26 PM
Black shoes after 6:00 PM.

Ah good point!

Also it is not the opera Romeo and Juliet it is the ballet by Prokofiev as performed by the American Ballet Theater. Unfortunatley they didn't have any opera scheduled during the 10 days we will be in the city.

Carlisle Blues
06-28-2009, 07:43 PM
Also it is not the opera Romeo and Juliet it is the ballet by Prokofiev as performed by the American Ballet Theater.

That is such a beautiful production. Dressing for the occasion always enhances the performance. :eusa_clap

Canadian
06-28-2009, 08:52 PM
I attend a few local symphony productions once in a while. Often, it's a chance for some middle-aged folk to wear their best, and that usually means a dinner jacket, matching trousers and bow. I wore a black suit to the symphony ball, and was underdressed. People here take the symphony seriously.

Of course, while working in Edmonton, I had seats at their symphony and wore a basic grey suit. I was the best dressed person, save a few in the $150/seat dress circle. Yes, I was in the cheap seats, but most of the senior citizens and regular adults who were seated in my section wore button downs and khakis.

When I was in prep school, we went to the Calgary symphony on a field trip. For a matinee, I wore a white shirt, black slacks and basic issue field boots. Some of the other schools wore blue blazers and slacks, but my school was more bohemian than that.

Thomas

Bugsy
06-28-2009, 10:18 PM
I need some information on suitable attire for attending an evening performance of "Romeo and Juliet" at the Met in NYC next week. We have very good seats in the Center Parterre and I want to make sure I am properly dressed. It is not an opening night performance so I believe the dinner jacket would be overdressing (too bad as I have a new BB peak lapel I would love to wear). I am leaning towards a 3 pc Navy linen suit, cream colored shirt, brown or black captoes (well polished) and a tie (possibly a bow).

Any suggestions or recommendations are greatly appreciated, I want it to be a memorable evening especially for my lovely wife who has been looking forward to this for several months now.

You probably will be better dressed than most of the other men, alas. Your ensemble sounds perfectly correct. I attended the opening preformance of "La Boheme" at the War Memorial Opera House in San Francisco last fall. I was seated in the Grand Tier and behind me sat a man in shorts, a tank top and sandals. The end of the world is near. :rage:

Tomasso
06-28-2009, 10:39 PM
Is this a trick question?


Get a pedicure if you're wearing flip flops. ;)

WH1
06-29-2009, 12:59 AM
Is this a trick question?


Get a pedicure if you're waring flip flops. ;)

Trick question?????[huh] Genuinely unsure of acceptable attire for the Met these days. Another example of the chaos created by the total breakdown of proper etiquette in our society, and I thought Afghanistan is bad.

Also never flip flops with black tie that is gauche, always swim fins!

12345Michael543
06-29-2009, 11:30 AM
Also never flip flops with black tie that is gauche, always swim fins!

I thought flip flops were de rigueur at all the best "black tie casual" beach weddings.
--
Michael

GBR
06-29-2009, 11:54 AM
Over doing it really - you will stand out like the proverbial sore thumb. Maybe tone it down by dropping the weaistcoat (vest)?

David V
06-29-2009, 12:06 PM
Over doing it really - you will stand out like the proverbial sore thumb. Maybe tone it down by dropping the weaistcoat (vest)?

You will look appropriate and thus make all the sore thumbs stand out.

Shadowex3
06-29-2009, 12:22 PM
There's really three ways to go about it. You can dress appropriately for attending an opera at the Met and ignore the peanut gallery, dress to fit in with everyone else and BE the peanut gallery, or (hopefully in combination with No1) you can dress so that whatever you're wearing matches where you're wearing it. Sadly that last one IS necessary since I've seen some people try to dress up and wind up clashing horribly with the location.

Imho ignore the peanut gallery. Your actions and how you carry yourself determine whether you look out of place, pretentious, or respectable.

carldelo
07-02-2009, 08:21 PM
Your outfit sounds just right to me. You might wind up leaving the vest behind at the last minute if it is anywhere near as warm and muggy as it has been in the city for the last month (unless the heat doesn't bother you, of course). I would not wear a tuxedo unless it was opening night of an opera, which isn't going to happen in July.

Geesie
07-02-2009, 08:33 PM
Is this a trick question?


Get a pedicure if you're wearing flip flops. ;)

I would give other advice to someone wearing flip flops to the Met, and that advice would involve a sturdy rope and a chair.

Carlisle Blues
07-02-2009, 08:49 PM
I would give other advice to someone wearing flip flops to the Met, and that advice would involve a sturdy rope and a chair.

I am sure there are plenty of seats available. It is the Met after all. :eusa_doh:

WH1
07-12-2009, 08:16 AM
Update

Went to the American Ballet Company production of Romeo and Juliet at the Met. It was a grand evening. My wife, Karen and I enjoyed it immensely. The dancers were amazing especially during the third act when Romeo believes Juliet is dead, truly amazing the physicality of the dance. The sets and costumes were beautiful.

I did wear my dinner jacket (full ensemble) peak lapels, 3 button vest, wing collar shirt, and shoes with gross grain bows. We were way overdressed compared to everyone else aside from one gent who appeared to be channeling Michael Jackson white mess jacket complete with neck medal on ribbon, shoulder boards, and fringe. (couldn't see if he had a single glove on and judging by the haircut he was not military). It made my wife very happy as she looked spectacular in a black St John evening gown she was eager to debut. The others in our box wore everything from suit and tie to jeans and a button down. No Flip Flops though!

All in all a wonderful evening.

Chasseur
07-12-2009, 04:17 PM
Sounds like you guys had a great time. I love dressing up with my wife to go to the opera and other performances.