I would have fit in lot better in the 50's than I do now. I'm a stay-at-home mom. Yes, my home is pretty darn clean. Yes, my family eats slow-cooked, home-cooked meals every day of the week. Yes, I sewed my kids' clothing (until the teen years when they started wanting brand names). My husband isn't expected to do anything around the house, nor did he change a single diaper. But he is the only breadwinner. He works long, hard hours and shouldn't have to put in hours at home, too. That's my job and it's much easier than his. When we go out and I meet men, they all praise me to high heaven and say my husband is the luckiest man alive. However, when I meet other women, I get treated like a second class citizen, or worse. Sometimes I get told I'm wasting myself on my kids and husband. Sometimes I get told I'm a traitor to my gender for not doing something "meaningful". Feminism was supposed to be about letting women have choices, instead it's about making women feel inadequate no matter what choice they make.