Reconstructing Suzy Homemaker

[MrsH]

Hello Ladies,
I'm MrsH, and I'm new here. Landed at this wonderful forum quite by accident. I've been trying to create a portrait of Suzy Homemaker, or, I suppose, a mid-century housewife. My Google foo has been weak and I've been unable to locate much, especially since I no longer have anyone I could ask directly. I'm hoping you all could help me.

What I am looking for is, well, everything. A few assumptions, our lady is suburban middle-class America. Her family lives in a house, not an apartment.
Economic issues:
Does she have access to the bank account at all?
If not, how are things such as grocery shopping handled, on the weekend when her husband can go with her, or does he give her the cash after she makes up a list and gets an estimate of how much it would cost? Or is everything handled on credit which her husband settles at the end of the month?
Her appearance:
Assumption here of 1950s, perhaps late 1940s.
Proper foundation garments? What I've been able to find suggests a girdle. But what about her bra, would it likely be the bullet style or something different? And what about her knickers, what we know as "granny panties" or something else? Most likely she'd have a number of full slips, princess seamed, or something else? Would the slip's s silhouette match that of her dress/skirt (aka, if she has a full circle skirt, would the slip be full circle as well)?
Can I get more information on what a house dress is?
And what about a hostess dress?
Capris/jeans/trousers - when are these appropriate?
Skirts would be full or near full circle, pencil or A line, falling to just below the knee, correct?
What about more formal events?
Necklines, collars and sleeves - need some help here for dresses and blouses.
Hats, what type, for what occasion?
Shoes, again, what type, any rules on color/etc?
Hair styles and makeup, totally lost on this one!
Daily Routine:
Assuming no kids, what would she do with herself all day? Obviously, there's cooking, and cleaning. She would probably wake early enough to ensure her husband has a breakfast of his choosing before heading to work, and ensure that dinner is on the table shortly after he comes home for the night, the rest I'm lost on.

Google search terms; links to pictures, articles, or other threads; as well as direct information would be very much appreciated (or even an, "I don't know" )

Thank You all!

[LizzieMaine]

Here's a previous thread with some similar discussion.

Keep in mind that the "Suzy Homemaker" image was largely a creation of advertising -- real housewives tended to be considerably less glamorous than the people seen on TV or in magazine ads. I recommend Stephanie Koontz's book "The Way We Never Were" as an excellent discussion of how mid-century families really lived.

As for access to money, joint bank accounts were common in the thirties, let alone the fifties. Most households worked on a budget, and it was generally the wife who was in charge of administering it -- she might allow her husband a certain amount each week for walking-around money, but in general she controlled the family pursestrings. He would turn his check over to her on payday and she'd run things from there on.

A housedress is a cheap, simple, often homemade cotton calico dress with buttons or a zipper up the front for easy donning. It was usually worn with low-heeled oxford-style leather shoes and either cotton stockings or ankle socks. Hair would often be up in a headrag, tied over curlers. The typical woman wouldn't go into town dressed like this, but she'd have no problem going out in the yard to hang up the washing so attired.

A girdle would generally be worn if only to hold up the stockings, but many women found the back support helpful while doing housework. If the woman had had several children the abdominal support was also welcomed. The bra would generally be simple cotton with structured but not exaggerated cups and elastic inserts along the band. Slips would usually be worn to keep perspiration away from the dress -- a simple cotton slip for everyday and something fancier in nylon or rayon for dressy occasions. Cotton briefs or wide-legged tap pants would be worn over the girdle, not under it.

There was plenty of work to do during the day -- washing, ironing, dishes, vacuuming, getting groceries, food preparation, figuring the budget, paying bills, etc. It was not uncommon for a woman without kids to have a part-time job of some kind, especially if the couple was young and just starting out.

[angeljenny]

The 50s housewife role is fascinating to me! Maybe read some books or magazines from the era. I have a few magazines and they have articles on charm, how to be loved, as well as bits on husbands. I quite like the rose tinted stereotype view but it is interesting to see what ladies of that era were reading - the articles must have been on subjects that appealed to them otherwise the magazines wouldn't have kept printing them.

Books like Rose Buckner's Book of Homemaking and Fascinating Womanhood are also interesting reads.

There is also this - http://www.amazon.co.uk/1950s-Housew...1163135&sr=8-1 due out in September.

[MrsH]

LizzieMaine, Thank you very much. This is precisely the kind of information I have been looking for.

[Stanley Doble]

You need to read some biographies or novels written by women in the fifties. Don't believe all the pop culture rubbish. Or sappy women's magazines.

[MrsH]

Thank you, Stanley. Honestly, pop culture is all I really have to go on at the moment, except for the small amount of additional info LizzieMaine was able to point me to on the internet. Haven't been able to make it to a bookstore or library just yet. What I'm not interested in is the feminist perspective or the arguments over whether women were oppressed at this time (I know some, if not most felt they were).

[dhermann1]

Yes, Lizzie is right. Contrary to some stereotypes, the average American woman of the 50s was not kept in chains in the basement when she wasn't slaving away in the kitchen.

[LizzieMaine]

I think the "typical fifties housewife" is one of the most abused figures in popular culture -- and she's equally abused by both sides. The feminists portray her as a drugged-up doormat who needed to be liberated, and the anti-feminists hold her up as some kind of Oedipal fantasy whose whole life revolved around finding the right brand of floor wax. The key to understanding her and her life is to realize both sides in the argument have an agenda that has nothing to do with the honest reality of the way she lived and looked at the world, and to take everything that comes from such sources with a whole barrel full of salt.

As far as magazines of the era go as a window on her life, there were some sappy ones out there, but I'd mention the Ladies Home Journal as definitely not sappy. Its editors took women seriously, and the articles in the magazine tended to deal with serious topics in a sober, thoughtful manner. From the late thirties thru the early sixties, the LHJ was an exceptionally-worthwhile publication, and anyone wanting to understand the mid-twentieth-century middle-class woman and her values would benefit from studying it.

[Stanley Doble]

I hesitate to say this. Having read a lot of books and magazines from the fifties, and having lived through them, there was a feeling at the time that the American woman was too strong and had too much power, and American men were turning into wussies. Furthermore, that the younger generation being raised in these households, and by female school teachers, were going to end up even worse.

If you look at what they grew up into ( the hippie generation,women's lib, the boomer generation) maybe they had a point.

[ThePowderKeg]

Newspapers from the era you're looking at will also give you a less romanticized view of the every day housewife's life: local department store ads will provide a more realistic sense of what she wore than magazine articles. Articles on local events may give you a sense of the types of activities she may have involved herself in - Ladies Auxiliary, political campaigns, church fundraisers and the like.

Did your woman drive? And did she have access to a car? Transportation--or lack of--would have had a huge impact on what she was able to do during the day. My grandmothers each had their own cars in the 1950s and that was RARE.