Are there ladies present who have non-retro bf's, husbands?

Marzipan · Nov 14, 2008

Of course, that's OK, lol! Better to be fun and creative than constantly cleaning... believe me, I know!

MissAmelina said:
fftopic: But that's okay right??

My mom was a total crafty stay-at-home-housewife (she made awesome dolls and pottery/macrame for art shows...i can still remember falling asleep to the hum of her sewing machine) but she HATED cleaning. In the 70's someone broke in and stole our TV set. When the cops came they thought the house had been ransacked!

BajueBoutique · Nov 15, 2008

oh, man I feel the same.

I cook, my BF cleans

Glad I am not the only one

miss_elise · Nov 16, 2008

craftster, eh? probably, although it wouldn't look as good embroidered on the front of a pinny... lol

Vegan_Kitty · Nov 16, 2008

MissAmelina said:
fftopic: But that's okay right??

My mom was a total crafty stay-at-home-housewife (she made awesome dolls and pottery/macrame for art shows...i can still remember falling asleep to the hum of her sewing machine) but she HATED cleaning. In the 70's someone broke in and stole our TV set. When the cops came they thought the house had been ransacked!

Haha, this made me giggle

sweatyspaghetti · Nov 17, 2008

my boyfriend doesn't hate the retro thing as much as he used to. but yeah,its fine if he doesn't like it i really don't care.i don't complain about his body modification obbsession or his tattoo's,or long hair,but im not going to tell him to lose everything so i'd like him better,i know he doesn't do that to me.although he tells me i suck at making spaghetti,which is very true.hey atleast he's honest!lol

Odalisque · Nov 17, 2008

While not retro in terms of the eras we cover here; my boyfriend does occasionally dress vintage. As in, vintage 1600's.

It's nice to have guy who doesn't mind dressing in costumes. lol

V-Sweetheart · Nov 17, 2008

Setting Priorities retro/non retro

Well, I set my sights on fellas who are at least interested in dressing vintage. Finding a fellow who dresses vintage is difficult. You likely already know him and he dated or married one of your friends! So my priority is does he like it when I dress vintage? Does he understand I am not wearing a "costume" ? I think I look darned cute (and so do others according to the comments). My BF is older than me and from stuffy DC. But the day he fell in love with me (he says ) was the day I showed up in a perfect fit 40s suit (appropriate to Jan weather) with hose, shoes, vintage protective rubber over boots, handbag, and 40s toy hat. Full make up. (It was a test) He absolutely loved it although he had never experienced it. (It could have turned out different of course)However, BF saw how good vintage can look. He now buys his own vintage clothes and is on Fedora Lounge too. But as for changing a man, just like any other new growth in a relationship, it takes care and clear communication.

Real Swell Gal · Nov 18, 2008

I would be happy with someone who can just respect it because it's something I like.
Unfourtunately my husband just thinks I'm a kook.

Lareesie Ladavi · Nov 18, 2008

My husband isn't retro at all, but that's okay. We met, when we wee 16 and in the deathrock scene, so there's something in common there. I love his look, though. He has dyed black hair and grey eyes. Swoon

A few years ago, I inherited turn-of-the-centry indian artifacts. That is how we discovered that we both LOVE native american art, from earlier eras, so we can build from there.
When I see anyone in a pomp, I automatically think of my brother. lol That has been his TM for years, and I can't help, but think of him. My brother is the true die-hard mid-centry fan. He loves cars and knows everything about restoring them to their former glory. He just finished an old travel trailer, that I hope to borrow, but that's another thread.

Spaugs · Nov 18, 2008

I'm not retro all the time, but I have to say I look forward to being that '50's perfect woman ^_^. As far as my bf goes, he prefers to be more futuristic. He's more of a Neo (from the Matrix) wanna-be, but he doesn't have a problem with my retro fashions. He loves that my style is so ecclectic (I don't normally stick to any one retro fashion).

Why should it matter if one person's retro and another isn't? As long as you're happy and you have a good, healthy relationship, nothing should keep you apart.

Real Swell Gal · Nov 19, 2008

Lareesie Ladavi said:
When I see anyone in a pomp, I automatically think of my brother. lol That has been his TM for years, and I can't help, but think of him. My brother is the true die-hard mid-centry fan. He loves cars and knows everything about restoring them to their former glory. He just finished an old travel trailer, that I hope to borrow, but that's another thread.

I saw this really cute boy (compared to me he was aboy) at a benefit the other night and his pomp made him look like a very young George Harrison.
He had the cowboy boots and tight jeans like George wore too.
He was soooooooooo cute. Shoulda took his picture.

Christy · Sep 2, 2009

I wanted to Bump this Thread

Because of my fiance. He does not dress in a vintage fashion but he absolutely loves when I dress up. Well, today he said, "So when are you going to get me an outfit?" He wants to be able to dress up with me. I didn't really know where to post this, so I thought maybe this would be a good thread.

Since he's shown interest I thought maybe I'd get him a "starter" outfit so he has at least one and he can see if he likes it or not. The problem is I have no idea where to begin. I've been looking through the men's clothing forums but I'm lost. I'm still learning about women's clothing, I have absolutely no clue about men's! Can anyone suggest an inexpensive starter look for him?

I'd really appreciate your help, thanks in advance!

Here's a picture of us on our way out to dinner last weekend.
Edited to Add: I'm not wearing shoes in this pic because I'm taller than him. I'm 5'8 and he's 5'4. He's such a doll that he doesn't even mind me wearing heels.

SayCici · Sep 2, 2009

No, and I wouldn't have it any other way. He likes rap and hair metal, he isn't vegan or vegetarian, he's Catholic whereas I'm not.. and he's perfect the way he is.

Christy - I think men are lucky (or maybe unlucky?) in that their styles have never changed as often or as extremely as ours do. Their fashions aren't as fickle, so your beau could probably do fine wearing a normal suit he already owns, but adding a vintage feel with accessories. A hat, maybe a vintage tie or square pocket, and some spectator shoes.

Fleur De Guerre · Sep 2, 2009

fftopic: Christy your hair looks absolutely utterly perfect in every shot I have seen!

Back on topic, agreed with Cici - a modern suit, vintaged up, would be jst the ticket! But your fella, being shorter, might have more luck than many with a vintage one!

Slytherin · Sep 2, 2009

my man is not vintage dressed, he is my old punk ( camo pants, skull tee, fitted jeans listening Conflict and other UK loud punk bands ) BUT he loves really 40s and 50s looks and make up. He collects 50s clocks and ceramic since a long time. So my 40s early 50s look is really sexy for him. He's a good guy and i know why i choose him ....

Miss Golightly · Sep 2, 2009

My husband isn't retro at all but he does like my vintage dresses, suits and coats etc. although it did take him a while to get used to me doing my hair in Victory Rolls! I think he definitely prefers when I wear wiggle dresses and do more of an Audrey Hepburn style with my hair - it's less of a shock I think!

Slytherin · Sep 2, 2009

Miss Golightly said:
My husband isn't retro at all but he does like my vintage dresses, suits and coats etc. although it did take him a while to get used to me doing my hair in Victory Rolls! I think he definitely prefers when I wear wiggle dresses and do more of an Audrey Hepburn style with my hair - it's less of a shock I think!

mine loves very much victory rolls and he is sad when i haven't its !

Christy · Sep 2, 2009

SayCici and Fleur,
Thanks for the help! Now I have an idea of what to go for. He'll be excited, but something tells me he'll decide against a hat lol. That's okay though, it's his choice so he can wear whatever he wants!

fftopic: Thanks for the hair compliment Fleur. I think I was really proud of my hair where I have the green dress on, so I keep using those pictures! That's the best I've ever gotten my hair to look. Too bad I'm having a bad hair day this week, I can't do anything with it!

*martini*time* · Sep 2, 2009

I can't believe I didn't see this thread before...

My boyfriend and I met when I was in my "who am I really" phase. Since we've been together, i've developed more of my 50's sense. I have always loved vintage and retro stuff, but it's now gone further then just clocks and pictures of Marilyn. Its progressed to curler sets, high waisted jeans and shockingly red lips. He was just a standard army guy, with the standard army haircut and jeans and t-shirt outlook, until we went shopping to one of my favorite rockabilly stores. HE WENT NUTS! Shirts, and jeans, and shoes and pomade...i don't even recognize him anymore! He looks great! We've started living together and we've even started collecting vintage things for the house. He loves old movie posters and so do i! We had to compromise on somethings, and negotiate on others. But so far so good!
Here we are at my birthday. His hair is longer in the front now and is in the process of growing into a sweet pomp. He's my dreamboat <3

(I'm taller then him too, but he LOVES when i wear heels...

)

Medvssa · Sep 2, 2009

No he is not, well, he does really like it on me

and we do like the same music and think pretty much in the same way.
I wouldn't want him to change his looks at all, I like vintage on guys too, but I still prefer the look of metalheads, in fact if you look at it this way, they are even more retro, since they look like they came out of the middle ages or even like cavemen

I think I would die if he cut his hip lenght hair off

Still I am into vintage looks and decoration, but not so much into the housewifey part of it, I mean I do like to cook and keep a clean home etc, but so does my BF, we do split chores close to a 50%. I think he would feel really uncomfortable if I wanted to change that. Not that I would want to

The only things I have allowed myself to introduce him to are button up shirts (working on the waistcoats

no progress on that one

) and cocktails

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