Hello ladies! I have a rather vain topic of discussion. A few weeks ago I hit a bit of a wall when I couldn't walk up 4 flights of stairs without feeling light headed so I've begun to run every other day and doing other cross training exercises on the off days. I feel miles better, those stairs have now been conquered and am even becoming interested in maybe running a race or two in the future. However, while I'm loving my new "guns" (as I like to call them) I do worry about how this may affect my pride and joy of being a proper, little 90-60-90 cm hourglass. What do you think of the vintage aesthetic on someone with hard curves rather than soft curves? The hubby is already dreading the loss of the much adored love handles. I guess the question is whether I'd rather pump my self-esteem with bench pressing my weight or with looking snazzy in my vintage wear. Anyone else have this "issue?"