So I've been experimenting with different pomades and seen great resuls from both sides. However i'm coming to the point where I've heard from people that petroleum based pomades will make/help you go bald by weakening the hair blah blah blah then i hear from relatives telling me stories (i'm in my early 20s) about friends of theirs going bald because they used Tres Flores & Dax wax. I like how the petroleum pomades work imo they work better but now I've got this fear that I'll go bald quicker than I would if I didn't. IDK if this is all hogwash or if there is some truth to the matter, I'd use water based more but they r more expensive and i just dont think work the best. Can I get some opinions?