I'm in the process of getting my first Aero (via Carrie at TB). I have the fit jacket, I have the samples. My wife likes the tumbled CXL FQHH. I like the non-tumbled variant best... at least based on the samples. I'm assuming that break in would be easier with the tumbled, since it comes a little softened up from the tumbling. But I like the deeper look of the non-tumbled. With break in and wear, does the regular CXL FQHH end up looking like the tumbled version? I'd be grateful for any input from you fine, more experienced gents that would help me choose. Thanks.