you are totally right Justin, i would volunteer in a New York Minute as my mother says i have stepped in some situations, and other times no. i pick my battles, but if i can tell that a lady is uncomfortable, ill politely say is everything going ok over here? and usually the chap is aggrevated because ive butted in and then it becomes a situation like HoosierDaddy pointed out. most of the time its quite interesting, ill play the part of the bf to get the girl out of that situation and the guy walks away. then i buy the girl a drink for her troubles and they say thank you.