Is liking suits so much a sign of craziness?

mimesis2nemesis · Jun 4, 2013

I'll begin by saying completely, totally and absolutely hate T-shirts and many other forms of "casual" wear. I wear suits and sportcoats mostly, not because I have to, as I work in what is possibly the most casual of enviroments, and I actually feel comfortable in them.Now, this doesn't mean I hate or have any negative emotions to those that wear them, some people look a lot better on that than on everything else IMO, but I really don't like them on ME. Also... This is probably going to sound outrageous to many people, but I can't see every suit as "formal wear", like so many of my peers do. I have tried to conform and wear a T-shirt and jeans like everyone else, but I simply can't keep at it for long... It makes me feel like I'm pretending, actually. So, I ask to you, fellow FLoungers... Is this attitude of mine a sing of personal style or just a sign of madness? (I'm 24, btw wich makes this situation a lot harder when I'm around people my own age)

Edward · Jun 4, 2013

These days, it is unusual, but I've never been one to follow the school of thought that "normal" is to be dictated by what is merely common. Really, all it is is we're just another subculture like the goths, the punks, or (dare I say it!) the hipsters. Nothing wrong with being different.... at least, not unless one simply wishes to be different for its own sake. That way lies the madness of the emo, or the scary path of the Begbie...

Stanley Doble · Jun 5, 2013

I see. They want you to be a non conformist like everybody else.

They'll get used to your style. After a while your co workers will be defending you to outsiders.

You are better off to overdress than underdress in a business situation.

PS these days it takes a lot more than wearing a sport coat to stamp you as crazy.The competition out there is a lot fiercer than you imagine.

Short answer: stick to your guns and you will end up ok.

mimesis2nemesis · Jun 5, 2013

Thank you for the replies. Stanley Doble, I'm a bit confused... A non conformist? I thought a conformist was somebody who followed what everybody else does, and in my particular case I feel like the complete opposite...

TSP13 · Jun 5, 2013

I have a friend that is 16 years of age, and he can't bare to wear anything other than suits, or sports coats... He really isn't into blazers though. Maybe once this year I've seen him out of a suit. He is one of my best friends, and I think it really works for him. (I feel like I have to clarify I am around his age so this doesn't seem strange.)

Gin&Tonics · Jun 5, 2013

mimesis2nemesis said:
I'll begin by saying completely, totally and absolutely hate T-shirts and many other forms of "casual" wear. I wear suits and sportcoats mostly, not because I have to, as I work in what is possibly the most casual of enviroments, and I actually feel comfortable in them.Now, this doesn't mean I hate or have any negative emotions to those that wear them, some people look a lot better on that than on everything else IMO, but I really don't like them on ME. Also... This is probably going to sound outrageous to many people, but I can't see every suit as "formal wear", like so many of my peers do. I have tried to conform and wear a T-shirt and jeans like everyone else, but I simply can't keep at it for long... It makes me feel like I'm pretending, actually. So, I ask to you, fellow FLoungers... Is this attitude of mine a sing of personal style or just a sign of madness? (I'm 24, btw wich makes this situation a lot harder when I'm around people my own age)

Stay strong, brother! I just turned 31 and I love my suits and sports coats! Dress how you like and who cares what others think about it?

I thought I should add, actually, that although my wife hates my style, I constantly get unsolcited and extremely enthusiastic compliments from random strangers, including one fellow around 16 who saw me wearing my panama and said, "That's an awesome hat, sir!"

Keep it up, cuz...

DamianM · Jun 5, 2013

I feel strange if Im not wearing a tie and like a slob if its just a t shirt and jeans.
It just happened. I went to six flags today. it was 81 with nice cool wind. not hot at all really.
I wore Linen slacks, white canvas shoes, with a light brown vest, a newsboy and green tie.
I was from another world! and heres me believing I was casually dress to keep cool and have fun.
but the norm was ripped jean shorts and tank tops for the girls, and cargo shorts and t shirt/tank tops for the guys.

Fashion has devolved into the more casual slobbish way and sadly most people don't know any better. They feel its to dressed up or its uncomfortable. maybe because they never had good fitting clothes or someone to teach them about it. I respect myself enough to dress for myself, I'm not trying to be edgy or cool or anything for that matter I just like good clothes from certain eras because design followed function. A linen suit keeps me cool and looking good and a heavy wool suit in the winter keeps me warm.

mimesis2nemesis · Jun 5, 2013

@TSP, that sounds really cool, hopefully he'll continue that trend as he grows older.

@Gin&Tonics, It's great to recieve compliments once in a while, and I find that image you posted really amazing!

@DamianM, I think what you say is true. Also, suits you can get normally that are not expensive are made cheaply and feel cheaply... And those are the only suits many people ever know, and boy are they awful... Now, on Six flags is one of the very few places that I actually wear jeans and a Tee, but only because I still like to go in the rides, and I really wouldn't like to get some of the stuff that gets thrown there on my clothes... and as for your style, It's one of the things I like the most about clothes from a certain era. And BTW, if you wear a heavy wool suit in the winter, does that mean you never wear overcoats?

mimesis2nemesis · Jun 5, 2013

Edward said:
These days, it is unusual, but I've never been one to follow the school of thought that "normal" is to be dictated by what is merely common. Really, all it is is we're just another subculture like the goths, the punks, or (dare I say it!) the hipsters. Nothing wrong with being different....

you know... I never actually thought of it that way... Too bad there are no FLoungers in my side of the world, as far as I know...

Stanley Doble · Jun 5, 2013

mimesis2nemesis said:
Thank you for the replies. Stanley Doble, I'm a bit confused... A non conformist? I thought a conformist was somebody who followed what everybody else does, and in my particular case I feel like the complete opposite...

My post was supposed to be funny or at least light hearted. In the sixties squares wore suits and ties, the hippies wore jeans and tie dyed T shirts. Now it appears to be the other way around.

Or, don't take things too serious. It is not as bad as you think, your co workers will get used to your style, and it will all blow over.

PS did you know Sir Paul McCartney used to be in a band? (joke) (the joke is on the old pharts not on you)

DamianM · Jun 5, 2013

mimesis2nemesis said:
@DamianM, I think what you say is true. Also, suits you can get normally that are not expensive are made cheaply and feel cheaply... And those are the only suits many people ever know, and boy are they awful... Now, on Six flags is one of the very few places that I actually wear jeans and a Tee, but only because I still like to go in the rides, and I really wouldn't like to get some of the stuff that gets thrown there on my clothes... and as for your style, It's one of the things I like the most about clothes from a certain era. And BTW, if you wear a heavy wool suit in the winter, does that mean you never wear overcoats?

I dont wear overcoats unless its a cold evening, Hardly in the day though.

Benny Holiday · Jun 6, 2013

There is absolutely nothing wrong in taking pride in one's appearance M2N. In fact, it should be applauded. The way men dress today is like a hangover left from the 60s and 70s idea of youth rebellion against 'the man' or adult society. People are sold the idea that they need to be big kids forever to stay relevant to the world, which in today's terms equals baggy T-shirt and shorts (dare I mention the ballcap). They've forgotten that there is an appropriate time to wear different types of attire. What I mean is this:

I have no problem with jeans and a T-shirt - if I'm at the park playing with my daughter, working on my Chevy, or doing yard work. You see, jeans were orignally work clothes. They have their place, but it's not in an office.

I love sports coats and slacks combos. They were deigned for casual lesiure activites, like going to the pictures or a trip to the fair with friends.

Suits are what a grown man wears when he means business, be that actual office business, going out in the evening, or going about his daily affairs. A well-made suit makes a man look and feel king of his domain (in my imagination anyway! lol) and it makes you look like you should be taken seriously as a mature individual, and not a kid in children's clothing.

Formal wear is a whole other thread!

So be proud of your personal sense of style and always know you're in good company here at the FL!

Shangas · Jun 6, 2013

I have no problem with jeans and a T-shirt - if I'm at the park playing with my daughter, working on my Chevy, or doing yard work. You see, jeans were orignally work clothes. They have their place, but it's not in an office.

Dad suggested I should wear that combination to the Regent Theatre. I nearly vomited at the idea.

And no, liking suits is not a sign of craziness. I wish I had more suits. But I don't. I only have one. And it's not one I would be caught dead in, either.

Benny Holiday · Jun 6, 2013

Yes mate that'd be a right insult to the Regent! Looking forward to hearing all about Kong in the other thread!

Shangas · Jun 6, 2013

I'm typing up my review. It'll be ready soon.

GBR · Jul 6, 2013

Nothing wrong with liking suits at all. Fine to wear them

Pinhead · Jul 6, 2013

I actually own just one tailored suit. It's for weddings and funerals.

I wear jeans daily. And T shirts, but long sleeve only.

But, with my footwear, hats, jackets and coats, I tend to be scorned by my peers.

And, almost thumped by strangers, on occasion.

My winter wear is most extreme (I work outside at heights). I may look like Nanook or Sir Edmund, but, damn I'm warm.

Un_Modern · Dec 5, 2013

Same Thing Here!!! I feel naked and humiliated without a suit, tie, or a fedora! I always dress traditionally, when I go to a M.M.A class I wear a Chinese top and pants and am currently looking for a big straw hat. Everybody says "WTF" but I look unique and outdated it is fun! I may be crazy, you may be crazy bet we have one thing in common we are ADDICTED to suits. Plus you will be buried or burned in a suit so enjoy it!

Hal · Dec 6, 2013

DamianM said:
Fashion has devolved into the more casual slobbish way and sadly most people don't know any better. They feel its to dressed up or its uncomfortable. maybe because they never had good fitting clothes or someone to teach them about it.

The mindset illustrated by the bit of your thread that I have quoted is the problem, and needs to be vigorously countered.
And Benny Holliday's posting (no.12 in this thread) sums up the situation excellently.

DamianM · Dec 7, 2013

Why is it the problem, when it is an observation addressing the problem?

Is liking suits so much a sign of craziness?

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